Monday, May 12, 2025

Super-marketization of The Gambia, Political Boutiques, and Social Mini-markets: Article by Modou Lamin Age-Almusaf Sowe

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The chicken swallows pebbles, drinks water, and eats grains. Yet, she complains of having no teeth. If she has teeth, will she eat gold? Let her go and ask the cow that has teeth but yet eats grass. Cut the grass and let the snakes come out. That's the current status of our country's political landscape. Privacy becomes a mini-market, politics turns into a supermarket, and a lack of respect for authority and elders becomes a boutique. Our society has become so demoralized to the extent that there is no middle left. You're either in the very far-left or in the very far-right. 

The politics of hate and destruction should be expunged from our soil. But if you want to know how, when, and where, you were born, go and stand in an election in The Gambia; assume a public office, or closely work with the government. To make a child remarkably embarrassed, insult his mother. In the words of Ashanti King Osei Tutu Kwadwo (Ghana) to the British Governor Sir Charles McCarthy on 21 January 1824, "I will use your skull as a drinking cup, and your jawbones to beat my drums if you dare to invade." Should Gambian elders start using this adage on the youths? Better still, the South African word vulindlela, a Zulu and Xhosa word that means "make way" or "clear the path," which is often used in the context of a wedding to instruct people to make way for the bride and groom, can be suitable for Gambian youths. We should start telling our youths 'vulindlela' if they don't want to be told how they were born. 

What we need today—what I call the new intellectual young man— is any man or woman who is willing to think responsively. Meaning—young people who know that a man’s life must be guided by reason, by intellect, not by feelings, wishes, whims, or mystic revelation. Our youth must value their lives and not give in to today’s cult of despair, cynicism, and impotence, and they must not intend to give up the world to the Dark Ages and to the rule of the collectivist brute.

As John Henrik Clarke famously observed, “Powerful people cannot afford to educate the people that they oppress, because once you are truly educated, you will not ask for power. You will take it.” The politics of opportunism adds to this exhalation. Let's get things right: visibility without value is just noise. Clout may bring crowds, but it doesn’t build trust or long-term results. The truth is less poetic. Destruction is a joint venture. But the citizen who throws garbage in the gutter and the official who sells a hospital contract to his cousin—they belong to the same machinery. Don't they? This is the conception of super-marketization in Gambian politics. A society that advocates for immorality and teaches foolishness in schools; it is no surprise to see the elephant laying eggs in our national park. That's the level of our social cohesion. Popularity has become a suitable yardstick to measure who runs for the presidency in a country where nothing is enough for a man to whom nothing is actually enough. What we are witnessing today is not just a failed society with moral degradation or public apathy; but it’s the slow erosion of divine knowledge on all sides. What the scriptures call the disappearance of knowledge—that's exactly our time. 

It is advisable to refrain from incurring additional debt of ingratitude to party politics and political affiliation should we wish to develop as a country. Our future, as a country, is too valuable to be diminished by ongoing youthful obligations. I am a fan of education, and in fact, it is good for every young person to learn dividedly and have a say in our affairs as a country: but we must not allow women to continue giving birth to insignificant children who amount to nothing other than disrespecting elders on social media. Young girls who do not wear panties nowadays and young men who bet their lives in the name of football. What a wasted sperm! The Gambia must commit to making a decision that will facilitate a rigid law-abiding society in the name of transformation. While the process may present challenges, the benefits are significantly necessary. State information and private communication must not be carelessly divulged in the name of vying for the presidency. 

Having conducted a philosophical cross-examination of our national problem, I can conclude psychologically with a prognosis that our problem frantically started immediately children who overfed on cornflakes, poop on the potty, and among them those who didn't suckle the breast of their mothers, graduate from university. Young people who speak English more than the British and dress in suits and ties. Those who know more than their parents and their teachers; young men who were circumcised at the hospital; 

These are the kinds of young people The Gambia is seeing: emotionally drained youths who vent their frustrations on social media. In those days, with just one look, elders sent children to the conventry and made them suffer the indignity of unremembered graves. But the post-Jammeh era is a generation of baby walker children who now run for president simply because of gardening fame from a village as remote as Sarre Pateh. Interesting, isn't it? That is the height of our country's name on the planet.

Instead of young people having mentors and learning to be responsible citizens who add value to our society, they often glance at our elders and their calm demeanor, unwavering patience, and consistent positivity, and mistakenly assume their path has been smooth and easy. What they fail to see are the countless battles they've fought in silence—the times they felt completely drained, yet somehow found the strength to rise again. They don’t know how many moments they stood at the edge of surrender, questioning whether they should keep going. They haven’t seen the inner wars they’ve waged, confronting fears, traumas, and doubts that threatened to consume them. Their resilience was forged in fire, not comfort, and their journey has been one of quiet courage, relentless perseverance, and a strength that defies easy explanation.

A few years ago, if you had stumbled on any profile on Facebook, you wouldn’t have seen much—just a flower as a profile picture. But all that changed when President Adama Barrow ushered in "freedom of speech and assembly." It is time to initiate an occult of humility and simplicity. There are only two times I become speechless: when I see highly respected elders in our society responding to youths who pee on the potty (poop sï pötti sambur, it is called in Wolof); and when I see haphazardly educated youth with only WAEC results and plenty of F9s advising President Adama Barrow on Facebook. It makes me laugh at our intellect as a country. 

Patriotism isn't a decadence; it's a calculated investment of responsibility, and in today's modern wasteland of cheap popularity, hypergamy, and entitlement, the youth must vet politicians like a high-stakes business deal. If you don't, you will be just another famous Bob Keita.

I’m a naturally reserved person. I wasn’t trained with social media shenanigans, and I never saw the need to post anything—not even birthday wishes. My page was just there… silent. The urge to promote Gambian literature and publicize my writings led me into social media usage. 

In today’s noisy world, focus isn’t just a habit—it’s a superpower. Be so grounded in your purpose that distractions no longer have a say. You don’t need to chase every shiny thing—just the one thing that truly matters. In both my professional and social life, I apply three ethical principles (Kantian, Utilitarianism, and Virtue ethics) to avoid offending and treating people unjustly, at least not intentionally. So, if you ever feel offended by any of my actions, I am sincerely sorry, and please forgive my shortcomings as I am only human. 

But the Kantian ethics taught me that my only motive for doing good is when it is a duty (moral and/or legal), not out of personal interest, and must be universally applicable. 

Utilitarianism reminds me of the consequences of my actions. The utilitarian perspective of good moral ethics is mainly concerned with the consequences of an action and balancing its relative advantages and disadvantages from the standpoint of creating the greatest good for the greatest number of people, in my view. This means that in order to assess an action as being right or wrong in a given situation, one must look at the consequences of applying that action and take full responsibility for your actions. 

Virtue ethics, on the other hand, has taught me an approach according to which the basic judgments in ethics are about character. In virtue ethics, an action will be considered right if it is what a virtuous agent would do in the circumstances. Virtue ethics tend to consider the personal values of an individual, with the notion that if the virtues of people are encouraged, then there would be no need for problem-solving since each and every individual would be acting from the goodness of their heart. Not so?

If ever our country is to develop, the youths, who have a key role to play in our development, must be both patient and educated.




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Saturday, April 12, 2025

6 Reasons Why Some Men Leave After Sex


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In the intricate tapestry of modern relationships, love can be both a beautiful journey and a perplexing maze. As we navigate the emotional landscapes of romance, it’s essential to understand the factors that can lead to heartbreak. 

While every relationship is unique, there are common reasons why some men may choose to leave women after becoming intimate.

Here are six reasons that shed light on this phenomenon, offering insight into the complexities of love in today’s world.

1. Physical Attraction vs. Emotional Connection

In the age of instant gratification, many men may initially be drawn to physical attraction. However, once intimacy is achieved, they may realize that the emotional connection is lacking. Love is not solely about physical chemistry; it requires a deeper bond. If a man feels that the emotional connection is absent, he may choose to walk away, leaving the woman feeling confused and hurt. 


 2. Unpleasant Experiences vs. Post-Intimacy

Intimacy can be a beautiful expression of love, but it can also reveal unexpected realities. For some men, an unpleasant smell coming from a woman’s private parts after sex can be a significant red flag. While this may not be a reflection of the woman’s worth, it can lead to discomfort and a quick change in perception. Men may associate this experience with a lack of hygiene or health issues, causing them to distance themselves emotionally and physically. Secondly, it could also be associated with the man noticing you have had an affair with many men prior to making love. Men can quickly notice a promiscuous woman after having an affair with you. This can degrade your worth-- and thereby making them walk away silently.


3. Fear of Commitment

In today’s fast-paced world, the fear of commitment looms large. Some men may enjoy the thrill of intimacy but shy away from the responsibilities that come with a serious relationship. After sex, they may feel overwhelmed by the prospect of commitment and choose to retreat rather than confront their fears. This can leave women feeling abandoned and questioning their self-worth. In a nutshell, most men leave after satisfying their needs.
 They don't want any intimacy thereafter. Perhaps the only time they will talk to you again is when they need sex. This can only happen for two reasons:

1. When they don't have any intention to marry you at all; and/or;
2. When they realize that you're too cheap and available to sleep around with every man.


4. Desire for Variety

The modern dating landscape often encourages a mindset of exploration and variety. Some men may engage in relationships with multiple partners, seeking new experiences rather than long-term connections. After intimacy, they may feel that they’ve satisfied their curiosity and move on to the next person, leaving their partner feeling discarded. This behavior can be particularly disheartening for women seeking meaningful relationships. Men are scum in general-- they are always carried away but looks, shape, and beauty. It's very hard nowadays to find a man who is only committed to only one woman. Very hard to get. 


5. Misaligned Expectations

In many cases, men and women enter relationships with different expectations. While one partner may be seeking a deep emotional connection, the other may be looking for something more casual. After intimacy, if a man realizes that his expectations do not align with those of his partner, he may choose to leave rather than navigate the complexities of differing desires. This misalignment can lead to feelings of rejection and confusion for the woman involved. When a man is ready to marry and the woman is not ready, oftentimes, when he sleeps with you multiple times-- his chances of leaving are higher. Just very high because he enjoys your sexual company rather than having a deep emotional connection with you.


6. Influence of Social Media and Peer Pressure

In the digital age, social media plays a significant role in shaping perceptions of relationships. Men may feel pressure from their family/peers to maintain a certain image or lifestyle, leading them to prioritize casual encounters over meaningful connections. After intimacy, they may feel compelled to conform to societal expectations, choosing to leave rather than invest in a relationship that may not align with their perceived status. Just to add that what they see on social media-- and what is available in real life-- are very different. Most men are carried away by beautiful pictures women post on social media, using amazing filters. But when they meet them in real life-- and notice differences; they tend to lose interest in them quickly. Lastly, men do not want to marry social media ladies. They are the first type of women every man wishes to sleep with, fully knowing that they can never marry them. Never!



Conclusion

Love in today’s world is a multifaceted experience, filled with both joy and challenges. Understanding the reasons why some men leave women after intimacy can provide valuable insights into the complexities of modern relationships. While physical attraction and chemistry are essential, they must be accompanied by emotional connection and mutual understanding. 

For women navigating the dating landscape, it’s crucial to communicate openly about expectations and desires. Building a strong emotional bond can help foster lasting connections, ensuring that love transcends the fleeting moments of intimacy. Ultimately, love is a journey that requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to embrace both the highs and lows along the way.


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Friday, April 4, 2025

The Teranga of Senegambia - poem by Modou Lamin Age-Almusaf Sowe


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In the heart of Senegambia, where rivers embrace,  
Cultures entwine, a vibrant tapestry of grace.  
From the rhythms of the kora to the taste of jollof rice,  
Unity in diversity, a bond that feels so nice.


The sabarr beats, the mbalax dances,
Football binds us together, winning become chances. 
With shared histories and languages that flow,  
Together we flourish, in harmony we grow.  
In villages bustling, laughter fills the air,  
A celebration of life, a love beyond compare. 
From Marchè Sandaga to Marchè Serekunda, the price of fish is the same.
Our funeral is your cry, our tears your shame.

Senegal and The Gambia, hand in hand they stand,  
A testament to friendship, a beautiful land.   In the dance of the sun, where the ocean meets the shore,  
Two nations united, their spirits forever soar.  

From the whispers of the baobab to the call of the call-and-response,  
A rich heritage flows, in every song and every glance.  
The Gambian smiles, warm as the golden sand,  
Senegal's embrace, a welcoming hand.  

In the heart of Casamance, where the mangroves sway,  
Bakau's nature's beauty thrives, in a vibrant display.  
Together they weave stories of struggle and pride,  
When The Gambia sneezes, Senegal is standing side by side.  
From the Mandinka songs that echo through the night,  
To the Wolof tales that dance in morning light,  
Their laughter and their stories, like the rivers, entwine,  
A chemistry of kinship, in every heart, they shine.



Note: On April 4, 2025, Senegal proudly celebrates its 65th Independence Day, honoring the resilience and bravery of its people in their fight for freedom from colonial rule. As the afternoon sun sets on this special day, the spirit of independence shines brightly in the hearts of all Senegambians. The poem is dedicated to all Senegambians. 

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Friday, March 21, 2025

Letter to the Future President of The Gambia

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Dear Future President of The Gambia,

Do you believe that one day The Gambia will have a female president? While that vision is still a journey ahead, let us turn our attention to the successor of His Excellency President Adama Barrow. I encourage you to reflect deeply on these biblical quotes: "For promotion cometh neither from the east, nor from the west, nor from the south. But God is the judge: He putteth down one, and setteth up another." (Psalm 75:6-7). Additionally, consider this: “Judah, you are he whom your brothers shall praise; your hand shall be on the neck of your enemies; your father’s children shall bow down before you.” (Genesis 49:8-10).

Politics is the only profession where you can lie, cheat, and steal, and still be respected. As we find ourselves at a crucial juncture in our nation’s journey, I feel a strong urge to connect with you, the leader who will steer us into a promising new chapter. The upcoming presidential election in 2026 isn’t just another political event; it’s a true reflection of the hopes, dreams, and aspirations of the Gambian people. Gambians have awakened, and they’re ready for change. However, the road to your leadership will be filled with challenges that call for unity, vision, and resilience.

The United Democratic Party (UDP) has stepped up as the largest opposition party, but it’s clear they can’t bring about this change on their own, especially with Lawyer Ousainou Darboe leading the charge. The political scene in The Gambia is intricate, and the ruling National People's Party (NPP) under President Adama Barrow has firmly established its grip on power. To make real progress, a coalition of opposition parties is more than crucial. As the esteemed sociologist Max Weber once said, “Politics is a strong and slow boring of hard boards.” This quote perfectly captures the tough journey ahead. It will take patience, strategy, and teamwork to break down the existing power structures.

In my book, The Throne of The Ghost, I stated that leaders are chosen by God, not people. People can only vote for, recommend, or elect a leader. Here are 15 urgent and pressing actions that the new president of The Gambia should prioritize within the first 100 days in office, based on current challenges facing the country:

1. Enhance National Security: Strengthen the capacity of the Gambian Armed Forces and the police to address rising crime rates and ensure the safety of citizens. This includes improving training, resources, and community policing initiatives.

2. Revamp the Education System: Implement reforms to improve the quality of education, including curriculum updates, teacher training, and increased funding for schools. Focus on making education accessible to all, especially in rural areas.

3. Improve Healthcare Services: Address the deficiencies in the healthcare system by increasing funding for hospitals and clinics, ensuring the availability of essential medicines, and improving healthcare infrastructure.

4. Stimulate Economic Growth: Develop a comprehensive economic recovery plan that focuses on job creation, support for small and medium-sized enterprises (SMEs), and attracting foreign investment to diversify the economy.

5. Address Housing and Land Issues: Implement policies to ensure affordable housing and secure land tenure for citizens. This includes addressing land disputes and promoting sustainable land use practices.

6. Tackle Unemployment: Launch initiatives aimed at reducing youth unemployment, such as vocational training programs, entrepreneurship support, and partnerships with the private sector to create job opportunities.

7. Establish a New Cabinet: Form a cabinet composed of individuals with no ties to the previous administrations of Barrow or Jammeh to ensure a fresh start and restore public trust in governance.

8. Review Civil Servant Salaries: Conduct a comprehensive review of wages, payroll, and salaries for civil servants to ensure fair compensation and improve morale within the public sector.

9. Introduce the State House Presidential Scholarship Program: Create a scholarship program to support talented students from disadvantaged backgrounds, enabling them to pursue higher education both locally and abroad.

10. Maintain ECOMOG Presence: Ensure that ECOMOG soldiers remain in The Gambia until a thorough assessment of the security situation is conducted, and a transition plan is established.

11. Revisit the Constitution: Initiate a constitutional review process to ensure that power is decentralized and that governance reflects the will of the people, promoting democratic principles.

12. Decentralize Development Programs: Implement a strategy to decentralize development initiatives, allowing local governments to have a greater role in decision-making and resource allocation.

13. Reform State-Owned Enterprises: Conduct an audit of state-owned enterprises and institutions to identify inefficiencies and implement reforms aimed at improving their performance and accountability.

14. Combat Drug Trafficking and Corruption: Strengthen anti-corruption measures and enhance law enforcement capabilities to combat drug trafficking and corruption, which undermine governance and public trust.

15. Improve Water and Electricity Supply: Address the challenges related to water and electricity supply by investing in infrastructure, promoting renewable energy sources, and ensuring equitable access for all citizens.

These actions are critical for addressing the pressing issues currently affecting The Gambia and will set the foundation for a more prosperous and stable future.

Do not fall for the bells and whistles. People are graduating Harvard, but our PhD holders are bringing certificates from Jarra Soma.

Gambians are longing for a leader who embodies integrity, vision, and the ability to bring us together. The future president must understand that true leadership isn’t just about holding a position of power; it’s about serving the people. As political theorist John Locke wisely noted, “The end of law is not to abolish or restrain, but to preserve and enlarge freedom.” Your mission will be to enhance the freedoms of all Gambians, ensuring that every voice is heard and valued. While people still claimed that nobody knows the meaning of 'Aliif Laam Miim,' people will doubt you to the maximum. Gambians are very difficult to be led. Do not be too strict, but don't also be too nice. But remember, you'll lead both genies and human beings. For the fact that you see the unseen; don't ever argue with professors who have not even created a chewing factory for The Gambia.

The journey to the presidency isn’t just about having good intentions. The political scene is filled with hurdles, and it’s essential for the opposition to tackle these challenges with both wisdom and foresight. Building a coalition is absolutely vital. As political psychologist Robert Cialdini pointed out, “The ability to influence others is a function of the ability to create a sense of unity.” This sense of unity needs to go beyond party affiliations because the future of our nation relies on working together and having common goals.

In this light, it’s important to grasp the dynamics of power and how the electorate thinks. The Gambian people aren’t just sitting on the sidelines; they’re actively involved in shaping their own future. Political scientist David Easton once said, “Politics is the authoritative allocation of values for a society.” The values that will shape your presidency should resonate with what the people aspire to. It’s crucial to listen to their concerns, understand their challenges, and present a vision that sparks hope and motivates action.

Here’s a text to analyze: The future president of The Gambia is somewhat familiar to the Gambian people, but perhaps not intimately known. There’s a palpable sense of anticipation, a hope that the right leader will step up to steer us through these challenging times. As I ponder the current political scene, I can’t help but think of psychologist Carl Jung’s words: “The greatest and most important problems of life are all fundamentally insoluble. They can never be solved but only outgrown.” This idea really highlights how crucial it is for us to grow—both as individuals and as a community—as we tackle the intricacies of governance and leadership.

As you get ready to take on this leadership role, I encourage you to focus on building a coalition with opposition parties. This alliance will not only bolster your position but also show the Gambian people that unity is achievable. The obstacles we face are significant, but they’re not impossible to overcome. Together, we can carve out a path toward a brighter future.

In conclusion, I want to stress that the future of The Gambia is in your hands. The road ahead will demand courage, resilience, and a steadfast commitment to the values of democracy and justice. As you step into this new role, keep in mind the words of South African writer Alan Paton: “Cry, the beloved country, for the unborn child that is the inheritor of our fear. Let him not love the earth too deeply. Let him not laugh too gladly when the water runs through his fingers, nor stand too silent when the setting sun makes red the veld with fire.”

May your leadership shine as a beacon of hope for all Gambians, guiding us toward a future brimming with promise and potential.


Warm regards, 
Modou Lamin Age-Almusaf Sowe 
Gambian Creative Writer




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Friday, March 14, 2025

Fortification of Oneself in an Age of Self-Entitlement, Misinformation, Castigation, Hatred, and Envy

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If the Divine can have adversaries, who are we to expect otherwise? In this world, individuals will invariably choose whom to support and whom to oppose. We inhabit a society where wisdom is often silenced, ignorance speaks with eloquence, and truth is distorted to appease the ears it encounters.


It seems more prudent to nourish a dog than to feed humanity; a dog, when fed daily, expresses gratitude and remains loyal, while a man, once deprived of sustenance, may label you as cruel, castigate you, or render you inhumane. As the Holy Qur'an reminds us, “Man was created in haste” (Quran 21:37).

In this tumultuous landscape, it is imperative for each individual to fortify themselves daily against the hasid (the envious) and the malevolent gaze of those who harbor ill intentions. 

In a class of students, everyone avoided Isatou without knowing she is deaf. Before it was known to them, almost half of the class have already labelled her as "rude, pompous, doesn't socialize, etc..." The moral of my article today is to ask before we judge. The Holy Bible tells us "Ask, it shall be given. Seek, you'll find, and knock, it shall be opened," Mathew 7:7. 

Before casting judgment upon the seemingly madman, one must seek to understand the roots of their madness. Many individuals in our society have succumbed to insanity due to spiritual battles waged against them by the forces of darkness. Yet, we often judge them without comprehending their narratives. 

When a life is lost, and the cause remains shrouded in mystery, let us pray for the departed rather than speculate on their eternal fate. When someone loses their livelihood, let us inquire before we pass judgment. The truth does not require embellishment to be acknowledged. 

Our society has become so polarized that the middle ground has all but vanished; one is either entrenched in the far-left or the far-right. People are quick to judge, and falsehoods propagate with alarming speed, often outpacing the truth. Content creators, in their haste to produce viral materials, frequently overlook the depth of understanding required to convey meaningful narratives that are truthful.

I hold a deep appreciation for open-minded individuals who can perceive situations from multiple perspectives. The more enlightened one becomes, the more one recognizes the value of silence. While many are quick to judge, we must refrain from condemning others’ choices without grasping their motivations. I strive to cherish existence and all that it encompasses. 


Some may withhold their support out of intimidation by your potential. If power and wealth breed arrogance, illness and mortality will serve as humbling reminders of our transient nature. The reason you may be unfamiliar with certain relatives is often tied to your financial status; acquire wealth, and you may find them eager to introduce themselves.

Be so steadfast in your character that those who seek to tarnish your name lose credibility in their attempts. 

No one ascends to prominence without navigating a landscape littered with adversity, climbing mountains of opposition from both jinn and mankind. Have you ever paused to ponder the questions: Why? How? When? What is the underlying reason for these occurrences?


“Powerful individuals cannot afford to educate those they oppress, for once true education is attained, the oppressed will not seek power; they will seize it.” — John Henrik Clarke. 

In this age of self-entitlement and misinformation, let us fortify ourselves with knowledge, compassion, and understanding, striving to transcend the divisions that plague our society.




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Tuesday, February 25, 2025

Virginity for Valentine - a poem by Modou Lamin Age-Almusaf Sowe

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On Valentine’s Day, a gift so rare,
A heart laid bare, a moment to share.
In shock, I stood, unprepared for the night,
Yet in her eyes, a flickering light.

The moans and the pain, a bittersweet song,
In the depths of love, where we both belong.
But in that embrace, a lesson unfolds,
True love is precious, not bought or sold.

In shadows cast by love's embrace,  
A gift unasked, a tender trace.  
With whispered sighs and hearts entwined,  
In passion's dance, our souls aligned.  

The ugly beauty of first delight,  
In pain and pleasure, we took flight.  
A moment raw, a bond so deep,  
In love's fierce grip, our secrets keep.   
The crimson tide, a sacred rite,  
In every gasp, the world ignites.  
With trembling hands, we crossed the line,  
In ecstasy's grip, your heart was mine.  

The taste of trust, both fierce and sweet,  
In every heartbeat, our spirits meet.  
Though shock and fear danced in the air,  
In that wild moment, nothing could compare.  

A love so fierce, it broke the mold,  
In vulnerability, our story told.  
Through moans and whispers, we found our way,  
In the depths of night, we chose to stay.  

So here we stand, in love's embrace,  
A journey begun, a sacred space.  
With every scar, a tale to weave,  
In the tapestry of love, we believe.


Author's note: 

Dear young girls, your virginity is a treasure, not a token for fleeting moments or gifts. Love should never be measured by physical acts or special days. Cherish your body and your heart; true intimacy comes from deep connection and respect, not from pressure or expectation. Wait for a love that honors you completely.


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Friends Before Lovers - a poem by Modou Lamin Age-Almusaf Sowe

a picture of Modou Lamin Age-Almusaf Sowe (right), with Anne (left), and Esther (middle).
  

In laughter shared, our hearts began to bloom,  
Two souls entwined in joy, a bond so rare,  
Through whispered dreams, we chased away the gloom,  
In every secret shared, we laid us bare.  


With every glance, a spark ignited bright,  
Yet friendship's warmth held passion at bay,  
We danced in shadows, veiled in soft twilight,  
Unspoken words in silence found their way.
  

But time, a thief, did weave a different thread,  
As feelings deepened, friendship turned to flame,  
In tender moments, all our fears we shed,  
And love emerged, no longer just a game.  


So here we stand, where once we dared not tread,  
From friends to lovers, hearts forever wed.



Modou Lamin Age-Almusaf Sowe



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Sunday, January 19, 2025

Letter to My Unborn Son






Dear Unborn Son,

In the stillness of the night, where shadows dance with whispers of dreams, I find my heart yearning for you, yet to arrive in this world. As I pen this letter, adorned with ink and tears alike, I hope to share not just my words, but the essence of my soul, a legacy wrapped in humility, love, and resilience. When a kennel of palm fruit falls into oil, it goes to his family. Therefore, when you are born in my presence, know your name and know who your father is. Muhammad is your name. 
 You are named after the holy prophet Muhammad S.A.W.; this is because I made a promise to Allah to name my child after him; this must be fulfilled. Your blood is so pure to unite Muslims around the world against the Antichrist. But his army is always looking for your father everywhere. You must firmly hold onto the Holy Quran and read it as given to me by your grandfather. I might not live long, but I have come to fulfill a promise I made to God while in my mother's womb. The peanut doesn't roast itself on fire; don't ever fear things you'll see from childhood. You have the eyes to see them—human or nonhuman, you have a calling in this world.

My name is Modou Lamin Age-Almusaf Sowe, a name that echoes through the quiet streets of The Gambia, not always for fame or applause but often as soft whispers—anointing my being as both a tormented author and a seeker of truth. My journey as a creative writer began in the vibrant hues of my childhood, a tapestry embroidered with the threads of joy, sorrow, and a persistent warfare against the unseen forces that sought to uproot me from my essence. Millions of intellectuals, men of honor and virtue have been born in this world for many years. You're not one of them. You're only a big fool. A laughingstock and a poor servant of Allah.

Throughout my life, the devil and his allies have brought forth trials that at times rendered me weary, yet I found solace in words—the balm that soothed my anxieties and gave flight to my thoughts. I have often resisted the dazzling allure of the Illuminati, cyclical whispers enticing me to sell my soul for mere fame. But you, my son, represent purity, the untouched canvas that seeks no brush of treachery. I want you to know that true artistry lies not in the embraces of the wicked but in the strength of one’s integrity.

I repeat: your name is Muhammad Age-Almusaf Sowe. Almusaf is your middle name; let the Arabs tell you what it means. At the age of 7, go to Gunjur and ask for the grave of the late Oustas Bun Jeng. Pray for him and his family. But also go to Senegal and ask for the tomb of Cheikh Ahmad Bamba. Pray for him and his family. Visit the family of Baye Niass, Serigne Babacar Sey, and pray for all of them. You must learn the Quran in Senegal first before going to Mauritania. Your destiny shall begin in Mali. You will meet your real image in Ethiopia. That is where your mission will get intense. As Menelik was to the Queen of Sheba and King Solomon, you are to Ethiopia nothing but a passing stranger. Get married there and move to Jerusalem. That is where you will meet Jesus. I repeat, you must marry an Ethiopian and must live in Jerusalem. The gates of heaven and earth await you in Israel. Read the book of Ge'ez and read everything you could find in this world. Read the Bible very thoroughly and read very well. You are not a Tijani, a Mouride, or any other sect; you are an ordinary slave of Allah who worships him alone. You are a Muslim, nothing but only a Muslim.

Just before the heartbreak came crashing in waves in 2018, I had loved deeply, only to watch that love slip through my fingers like grains of sand. The loss bore a shroud over my existence—three long years haunted by a haunting melancholia, a darkness that wrestled with my spirit relentless every night. I nearly lost my life in that tumult, yet in that abyss, a flicker remained—my pen, my refuge, my voice to reconcile the dissonance.

Upon my return to The Gambia in 2019, I was a weary young man, a traveler draped with scars and stories. Two weeks later, the ground of my being cracked once more—the gentle spirit of my mother departed. Pain piled upon sorrow, yet from the ashes of grief, I learned an invaluable lesson: life does not wait. Despite my heart seemingly drowning in dismay, I mined strength from my sadness, and I mustered a fortitude I never knew existed. The fortitude of remembering Allah-- my Lord and your Lord.

Oh, little son, I dream of the family we will forge together! More than merely a male legacy, I envision our hearts intertwined, forged in the fires of truth and compassion. Each paragraph I write is inspired by the intricacies of love—love for family, for art, and most importantly, for our bonds with the Divine. My reflections weave together philosophy and poetry drawn from the depths of religious understanding, forming a rich narrative that seeks the oneness of creation.

While I have earned respect and praise in distant lands—appreciated by those who may never meet me, your father remains unsung in The Gambia, a paradox still unexplored. Yet, I do not envy the limelight, for I find contentment in the simplicity of truth. I forgive easily, wearing kindness as my mantle, a testament to my belief that love can conquer the fiercest battles.

In my humble existence, one question lingers—where, oh loving Creator, is my life partner? In my reflections, I hope for you to carry the torch of my ink, and embrace the divine gift of writing. I want you to know that true power is not held in wealth, but in the impact one can have on another's life through words. My poetry is a weaving of my soul, rich with the essence of the human condition—reminding us that every heartbeat resonates with stories waiting to be unearthed.

As I write these lines, I can feel your energy flickering in the heather. In you, I see the continuation of my legacy—the breath of your existence kindling a fire within me, pushing boundaries and elevating the narrative of our people. My hope is that you will find solace in literature, using it as a vessel to channel your thoughts and dreams into the world.

I dream of holding you in my arms, of teaching you to write your first word, your first poem, and helping you embrace the humility and strength needed to navigate both the beauty and harshness of life. You will learn that the world is vast and complicated, filled with turmoil and grace, and that your pen can serve as a bridge between despair and hope.

As you grow, remember the power of love, my dear son. Engage with the world around you empathetically, and transform struggles into narratives that inspire others. Stand firm in your convictions and wield your words with responsibility. You may face nights long and dark, but it is precisely in those moments that the light will shine brightest. Through your writings, speak on behalf of the voiceless, transgress barriers, and know that your heart should pulse in rhythm with love and understanding.

To you, my child, I draw a map of the struggles I have known and the dreams that remain yet unfulfilled. I urge you to step into this world with eyes wide and spirit unbroken. You are a treasure, an eternally cherished being whose essence will always seek to unravel the beauty of the universe. Someday, while I may meet the end of my journey, know that I will live on through you—my hopes, my philosophies, my words living eternally within your life. 

The jinns are your servants; Satan is your enemy and all his progeny. They will hunt you everywhere from the day you are born till the day you die. You have the power to restore justice and righteousness back on this earth with the help of Jesus. He will be your helper. The whole world will see him as a madman, but you will be the first person to recognize him. He will never return on this earth as a prophet. Oh, my beloved son. Listen very carefully because my time is very limited. Worship Allah, not anyone else. Don't ever worship the Arabs and their culture and religion. There is evil everywhere in the world. Even when you run and hide inside the Kaaba, they will hunt you and bring you out to kill you. Fight in the name of Allah and die in his name. He is enough for you.

Until that glorious day arrives when you bless my life with your presence, I will continue to write, to fight against the darkness, and to pray for you while working toward the life I’ve envisioned for us. May the universe conspire in our favor. May love guide you as you journey through life, and may you always find comfort in the stories that await you. 

I want you to make enough Zikr and always follow the teachings of Muhammad S.A.W. He is your role model, and Allah is your protector. Your father's family is from Jesus, and your mother's blood is the bloodline of the prophet Muhammad S.A.W. Do not be afraid; do not fear; Allah is with you at all times. 


With all my love,
Your Father, Modou Lamin



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